If you are anything like me as a small business, you wear a lot of hats and work long hours. That fateful day when we all hope that we become millionaires at one point is long off, and we are in the day to day struggle of making things work and figuring things out by ourselves. I'm hit flush in the face with all kinds of advertisements that promise AI sales and marketing tactics that will somehow carry your business from the slow pace of growing to the sound of a Vegas slot machine hitting the jackpot. Let me tell you friends, for most of us, that stuff will never work. It's not that we are doing anything wrong, it's that everyone is playing the same game. Everyone is trying to post, everyone is trying to make content, everyone is trying to grow their following, everyone is trying to get more subscribers, and everyone is trying every day to be seen and grow. Some are doing it for business, some for vanity, some for kicks, some for entertainment, and other such reasons. It's like looking into a room of people pushing and shoving at a store's door busters deals before Christmas shopping season. Everyone wants the same thing and all fighting to get to the front and out the door.
There is an algorithm at every door. One for Google, one for Instagram, one for Facebook, one Tik Tok, the list goes on, if it's social or web based there is an algorithm for that and it controls who sees you and who does not. Good intentions of course, they are all designed to push things that they think the user will like based on what they've interacted with, what they've shown interest in, what they've searched for and so if you aren't presenting that subject matter you just kind of fade in the background. Many of us have experienced this on a small scale with our shops where listings are popular one week and then the next week fall flat, or everyone saw your post for dolly subject matter and then the next week no one saw anything. With everyone on their phones as a source of entertainment and for cutting boredom or awkward silence, the past time of today is scrolling scrolling scrolling. Social media pushes you to stay on, look at all the people looking, scrolling, if you aren't in front of them you don't exist. Meanwhile small business owners are met with an unbelievable demand of being content creators and unreasonable posting objectives.
I've been frustrated myself. I push my customers to "Like" me on Facebook or Instagram, but when I'm ready to release my new dolly product or show what I've recently created, I'm having to find my followers all over again. I was contacted by one of my former Etsy customers not long ago, who came across me on another platform and was so happy to find me again. Again, how is it I lost a customer somewhere on the web? I'm constantly posting everywhere and yet this person could not find me. I searched everywhere, and then found that this same person "followed me on Instagram". How is this possible - this person could not find my store, but was one of my own followers on an active account? Why? Because even though they were a follower, my posts did not end up on their feed because I had been filtered out. So then I had a think about this...so I am busting my butt growing followers, promoting use of social media and then I can just fall off the face of the earth without my customer even realizing they lost sight of me. This reminds me a lot of many situations where I found myself doing all the hard work to make someone else successful. Yes folks, social media needs us to be working hard, creating content, and making platforms look interesting and full of information and to sell advertising, but is it really stable enough to grow business? Or is it a revolving door of people coming and going or getting lost along the way?
I think technology as a whole is something that we must keep up with as business owners. We can't sit idle and let opportunities pass us by, but I also think that we need to use our time wisely as otherwise we meet impossible standards of tasks and spread ourselves way too thin. Here today, gone tomorrow is not a mindset that seems very stable to me. I'm not saying get rid of social media, I enjoy posting photos and occasionally getting feedback or likes, but it no longer defines my success in business. I am not going to cry if only 8 people like a post or that my business Facebook page has only 100 followers. Because all of that is superficial. Ok 100 people thought I was interesting enough to click a like button, that doesn't mean they will ever purchase anything from me. In fact social media gets you about 1% in sales from your following. Larger percentages are achievable if you are really killing it but averages peak at about 5%. Now think really hard about that number, and then think really hard about what percentage of your time you are spending killing yourself on posts and creating content. My guess is that it is not 5% or less.
What am I trying to say here? I'm saying that we are all dancing around in a bubble of promised success with very low results and a whole lot of fluff. We have defined our success from numbers of people who have no real intent of ever being a customer. Some of us are defined by those numbers as how popular our businesses are and who is an influencer. There are real influencers out there, yes but there are lots of wizards behind the curtain as well that are just putting on a good show but actually don't have any power at all. Many businesses are thriving without social media at all - which seems like a crazy thing. But what is actually crazy is the day we gave up other types of marketing and interaction with real people for a world full of superficial ones. I find it super sad that I can spend all day on social posting and interacting and maybe get 1-2 sales from it or be at an in person doll event and walk home with 3 new network connections and 5 new customers. Social media should not be the only thing on the agenda and it shouldn't be deserving of all your hours in the work week even though you can do it all from home.
Explore other types of marketing and measure the success vs social media. Take into account how much time you have to put in to get your results as that is eye opening.
• Radio
• Google Search
• Doll Events and Conventions
• Doll Clubs
• Teaching a Class in person or online
• Magazines for doll collectors
• Physical mailers and catalogs
• Networking events
• Kid events
• Craft Faires
Everyone's business and customer base is different, but a mix of different methods and figuring out what gets the best results is key, and it may surprise you if social media is not #1.